Messages that stay put
Sent messages can't be edited or deleted in the app. Sent and first-viewed times are kept, with subjects, threads and attachments, the same for both of you.
SIGIL (SIJ-il), from the Latin sigillum, a seal.
A monitored message channel for co-parents whose court order calls for one. Once sent, a message can't be edited or deleted in the app, and any change to the record is detectable.
Every message screened by Super Intelligence (SI), before it's sent.
When SI screening is on, every outgoing message is checked against the order before it's sent. Both parents turn it on together, or the court sets it. Fixed checks run either way. SI never writes or rewrites your words, and SIGIL never stores unsent drafts.
Super Intelligence (SI) is the official U.S. term, since September 22, 2026, for what used to be called artificial intelligence. What is SI?
Watch the 6-minute explainer · Try the demo (synthetic data)
Screening is automated and can be wrong. You remain responsible for what you send.
What SIGIL does
SIGIL is a monitored communication channel for high-conflict family matters. It helps keep the conversation to the case, and keeps one honest record for both sides.
Sent messages can't be edited or deleted in the app. Sent and first-viewed times are kept, with subjects, threads and attachments, the same for both of you.
SIGIL's fixed checks run on every message. When both parents turn it on, or the court sets it, SI also checks each outgoing message against your order's terms before it's sent. You see what it flagged and decide what to do. You remain responsible for what you send.
Every message is chained to the one before it, and signed checkpoints go to both parties. A records custodian, chosen by the parties or the court, is planned. Only fingerprints are checked. Your words are never published.
Judges receive message reports with the verification printed on the page. GALs, parenting coordinators, mediators and attorneys can be given read-only access.
Super Intelligence (SI) screening
Before a message goes, SIGIL checks it against the communication terms in your order. Fixed checks run on every draft. When SI screening is on, SI reads the draft too. It holds a message that may cross the order's lines before it's sent, and flags potential issues for you to decide. It never writes or rewrites your message, and it never makes a finding about you.
SI screening is on only if both parents agree, or if the court sets it. SIGIL never stores unsent drafts.
If a message may include something your order does not allow, SIGIL's fixed checks or SI hold it before it's sent and show you which term. The draft isn't saved.
If SI flags a message as possibly off-topic, you can edit it, or add the case reason and send.
Optional style tips, never shown to the other parent.
The record
SIGIL keeps an append-only log. Each message carries a fingerprint of the one before it, so changing or removing one breaks every link after it.
Every message is hash-chained to the one before it, in the order it was sent.
At regular intervals, SIGIL signs a checkpoint: one short fingerprint for the whole record so far.
Signed checkpoints go to both parties, so a rewrite of history, even by SIGIL, shows when the record is checked against a copy held outside SIGIL. Planned: a records custodian the parties or the court choose, holding a copy too.
Checkpoints are timestamped by independent timestamp authorities and anchored to the Bitcoin blockchain through OpenTimestamps. Only fingerprints are anchored, never content.
A wax seal never stopped anyone from opening a letter. It showed whether someone had.
SIGIL takes its name from the sigillum, the small seal pressed into wax to close a letter. The record works the same way: it doesn't claim nothing can change. It makes any change detectable. Read how the record is kept
Check a record
You write it. SIGIL keeps it. Anyone with the receipt can check it. Only fingerprints are checked. Your words are never published.
A check shows whether the record has changed since a checkpoint you hold. It doesn't show who typed a message. Try it on a sample record made for this page. This page uses a demo format, and the check runs in your browser.
This receipt checks the record. It does not judge what the message says, and it does not show who typed it.
Fairness
Every prompt, label and notice reads the same for both of you. SIGIL doesn't take sides, and never says anything about a person.
You both see the same messages, times and checkpoints. Neither of you can change them in the app, and a change by anyone, SIGIL included, shows when the record is checked against a copy held outside SIGIL.
Terms written to be read in one sitting. They are in draft and will be published before launch. Read the plain-language terms
Who it's for
A calmer way to handle the practical things, from receipts to documents, when an order says it has to be in writing.
For familiesMessage reports that use familiar, plain labels, with the verification printed on the page.
For attorneysGALs, parenting coordinators and mediators: read-only for the case. You see the record. You can't change it. Every view is logged.
For neutralsWaitlist
SIGIL is in development, and not yet in use. Every demonstration on this site uses synthetic data: fictional people, fictional orders. Join the waitlist to show your interest.
The AVOWAL family
AVOWAL is the platform. APPARITOR is built to put service of process on the record. SIGIL is built to keep the messages. One grammar, three inks.
The platform.Legal operations. Independent licensed attorneys and ELARIA. avowal.ai
The officer serves. We prove it.Service of process by licensed officers, on the record. In development.
Say it once. It stays said.A monitored channel for co-parents. In development.